Tanenbaum Curriculum

Religions In My Neighborhood, p. 63

Lesson Name

Understanding Ourselves and Sharing with Others

Grade Band

Elementary (Grades 3-5)

Middle School (Grades 6-8)

Required Materials
  • Make four signs on one color paper: Brothers, Sisters, Brothers and Sisters, Only Child.

  • Post a sign on each of the four walls of the classroom.

  • On paper of another color make four signs: Watch TV, Read a Book, Listen to Music, Play a Favorite Game/Toy.

  • Post one of the signs on each of the four walls of the classroom.

  • Make copies of the Who Am I? handout for each student, with additional copies available should a student request a second copy. (Note: We suggest using the outline of a person for Grades 3-4 and the star version for Grades 5 and above.)

  • Distribute the Who Am I? handout the night before the lesson with directions that students work with family members, as needed, to complete the handout to bring to class the next day.

  • Have a completed copy of your own Who Am I? form.

  • Identify space on each classroom wall to post students completed Who Am I? forms around the room. Pre-cut pieces of tape for students to use to post their forms.

  • Have circle centerpiece and talking stick.

Standards / Competencies

CASEL Core Competencies

  • Self-Awareness

  • Social Awareness

  • Relationship Skills

Common Core ELA-Literacy Standards

  • Speaking and Listening

  • Writing

NCSS Social Studies Themes

  • Individual Development and Identity

Recommended Time 1 hour
Essential Question Why is it important for each of us to know about ourselves and share who we are with others?
Learning Objectives
  • Identify key characteristics that make them who they are.

  • Recognize that each person is unique in how they identify themselves.

  • Explain why their personal characteristics are important to them and to their peers.

  • Recognize that diversity is a natural, ordinary part of life.

Important Vocabulary Oath: A solemn (serious) promise, sometimes referring to God as a witness, regarding one’s future action or behavior.
Activating Prior Knowledge Ask students to stand and move to the wall that describes if they have siblings (Brothers, Sisters, Brothers and Sisters, Only Child). Discuss the number of siblings and move to the next set of signs (Watch TV, Read a Book, Listen to Music, Play a Favorite Game/Toy). Have students choose based on their preferences for a rainy day and discuss their choices.
Core Instruction Have students complete the “Who Am I?” handout with family input. Share three things about themselves in a circle using a talking piece. Discuss similarities and differences observed in the class. Encourage students to notice what they learned about themselves and others.
Wrap-up Ask students to share one word describing how they felt while sharing and listening. Thank students for their participation and explain that their forms will be posted for further reflection.
Assessment Class Unity Project: Divide the class into small groups and provide them with large paper, markers, and crayons. Each group creates a collaborative artwork that represents the class as a whole based on the “Who Am I?” forms around the room. They can include symbols, colors, and images that represent their shared experiences and identities.

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